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The way to cultivate etiquette cultivation

2018-02-23 03:12:00

1, consciously accept and learn etiquette education, improve the level of etiquette cultivation from the ideology In interpersonal communication, etiquette not only reflects a person's communication skills and abilities, but also reflects a person's temperament, demeanor and upbringing. By learning etiquette, you can improve your own moral cultivation and civilization, and better show your elegant demeanor and good image. A polite, well-spoken person, his life path will be the spring breeze, by people's respect and praise, and he himself is a piece of spring, to others, to the society to bring warmth and joy. People's consciousness is not innate, but to rely on the teacher's guidance, rely on continuous training, rely on the social health of public opinion guidance and a good environment, etiquette education is the prerequisite for making etiquette cultivation full and perfect. Through etiquette education and training, you can distinguish right from wrong, distinguish beauty and ugliness, understand common sense, and set up standards, which makes the formation of people's etiquette behavior have external causes, and create conditions for further internal self-cultivation. Through this important condition, students are encouraged to work hard, constantly hone, develop and produce a strong desire for self-cultivation, and finally achieve the purpose of paying attention to etiquette everywhere. The ancients emphasized that "I examine my body three times a day" to improve personal cultivation must pay attention to introspection. Similarly, learning etiquette should also pay attention to self-examination everywhere. In this way, it will help to find shortcomings and find deficiencies, constantly summarize skills, and improve themselves. 2, through books, the Internet and other ways to widely read art works and scientific and cultural knowledge, so that their own knowledge to strengthen the cultivation of culture and art, to improve the quality of etiquette is of great benefit. The improvement of cultural and artistic accomplishment can greatly enrich the connotation of etiquette accomplishment, enhance etiquette taste, and continuously improve the level of etiquette. Generally speaking, people who are civilized, polite and educated are mostly people who are rich in scientific and cultural knowledge. This kind of person has strong logical thinking ability, careful consideration of problems, thorough analysis of things, proper handling of events, and can show unique charm in interpersonal communication without appearing stiff. Our country is known as "the state of etiquette" said, ancient, modern, modern books contain a wealth of knowledge about etiquette, with our country plus WTO, our foreign exchanges more frequent. Etiquette customs vary from country to country in the world, college students need to pay attention to collect, sort out, study and understand, in order to facilitate the use in practice, over time, can make their own etiquette cultivation to a new height. 3, actively participate in social practice activities, gradually improve etiquette cultivation in modern society, interpersonal communication is more and more extensive, only from the theory to clarify the meaning and content of etiquette, without using in practice is far from enough, etiquette cultivation is the key to practice. Self-cultivation requires both cultivation and cultivation. Without practice, self-cultivation becomes water without a source and a tree without roots. In the cultivation of etiquette, we should take the initiative and positive attitude, adhere to the theory and practice, and actively apply the knowledge of politeness and etiquette that we have learned to all aspects of social life practice. In school, family, society and other occasions, we should always and everywhere consciously focus on the big picture and start with the small one. Use etiquette rules to regulate your manners, such as not spitting, throwing paper scraps, not drinking in the dormitory, talking loudly or playing the stereo late at night, and observing public order when paying for shopping, making a bank deposit or waiting in line for a bus. In this way, perseverance will gradually enhance the awareness of civilization, cultivate polite behavior, wash away vulgar indecent and other bad habits, and become a person with etiquette. Practice more, do not be afraid to make a "fool of yourself", strengthen through various interpersonal contacts, and constantly improve. We should pay attention to both to overcome the stubborn disease of arrogance and contempt, and also to overcome the common disease of inferiority and shyness. Our Chaoshan area has a etiquette is: when a guest comes to the house, to make time tea for the guests to drink, and some students because they do not know or unfamiliar and dare not make tea to entertain guests, this is obviously not very polite. In fact, if we try hard, even if we do not do well, the guests will be moved by our sincerity. When some ordinary students meet teachers or leaders, they think that the other party does not know themselves or even will not deal with themselves, and dare not say hello to the teacher or leader, in fact, no teacher or leader will inexplicably ignore the students who say hello to them.